I'm a total description of a Leo

Wow this article nailed it. It's like it's talking about me! Well here you have it for those who thought I was perfect I have flaws too. hahaha jk I don't agree in being conceited but I could be selfish that might be related to being conceited but other than that my flaws are dead on too. That's why I'm so- into horoscopes, it really tells you who you are!!

Leo Astrology – Learn About The Star Sign Leo From The Zodiac

Leo is an astrological sign, which is associated with the constellation Leo. Under the tropical zodiac, Leo is occupied by the Sun from July 23 to August 22, and under the sidereal zodiac, it is currently from August 17 to September 16. The opposite sign to Leo is Aquarius. The glyph for Leo represents the mane of the lion. The corresponding month in the Babylonian calendar is Abu.

Leos are thought to be very dignified, regal, determined, stubborn, loyal, protective, adoring and traditional. Leos are hard-working, ambitious, determined, talented, love the lime light, joyful, extroverted, generous, and enthusiastic. However they are prone to laziness, over dramatic, hypersensitive, selfish, stingy, control issues, insensitive, egostical, crave luxury, conceited, coldness, fickle, cruel, and can often take “the easy way out.”

Fiery determination and the desire to be important often rule their lives. They usually pursue their goals doggedly and use their charisma to sway others to their cause. Open and honest, Leos tend towards the philosophical and tend to hold great idealisms about how things should be.

Under a Fixed sign, They are often resistant to imposed changes, and tend to hold onto people and situations for a long time.

Leos, like the Lion they are named after, are thought to be born leaders, with charisma, enthusiasm and determination. They do well under pressure and are good at defusing crisis situations.

They are often lovers of the finer things in life. They are associated with gold, jewelry, fashion, luxury items and adornment. Because of their creative nature, they tend to not stick with the boring and mundane, and look for excitement in life.

The downside to a Leo is usually their pride. Due to this, they are sometimes prone to being conceited, jealous, self-centered, snobbish, boastful, overbearing with a disdain for those under them.

Due to their positive nature, they can be gullible and tend to believe the best will happen. When it doesn’t, they are prone to depression, may react badly to affronts and could be deeply hurt by malice and hostility. If faced with negative situations Leos are also known to react with extreme confidence, which can get them into even more trouble.

In astrology Leo is ruled by the Sun.

Get yours at: Find out your horoscope

How I help Japan

I want to do as much as I possibly can to help Japan, my home country.

I don't want to feel helpless or just donate I want to do more.

I've helped my Japanese friends in Miami to place donation boxes in all the Japanese restaurants in Southern Florida.

I've spread the word about this tragic so more people can help.

I've been helping charities and non-profit organization in their donations.

And I've donated and purchased items that the 100% of the proceeds goes to help Japan.

Here are some stuff that I got:

Lady Gaga made a wristband like the very NEXT day of the tragedy!!

Lady Gaga Japan Earthquake Relief Wristband

Tokidoki's t-shirt:

Women's Japan Relief Run Tee

Palmer Cash t-shirt: (still waiting for the size cuz it's out of stock)

Womens Help Japan Relief Tee

Artists came together to make a CD for Japan:

Songs for Japan

Get a sticker to show your support:

Love Letter to Japan

And this last one is a good site if you want to shop w/o the guilt:

From DailyCandy.com:

6 Ways to Shop for Japan

Tweeting

So it's been little bit over a week since I started Twitter and I'm still trying to figure it out. What is tweeting for and what do you tweet about? I tweet whatever that's in my mind and then I also do Fashion of the day and sometimes I give out health tips and sex advices. Am I using it right? And what is "#" all about? Is it a tag? Anyways I dunno if I'm using it right but follow me if you'd like :-) @crystalkiss08

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New Twitter acct!!!

I got a new Twitter acct and this time I think I'm gonna use it correctly.

Still gotta get use to it but please follow me: @crystalkiss08


I'll be tweeting about fashion (fashion of the day), my current trend, interest, art, random thoughts and my everyday life.


Please feel free to give me feedbacks or comments! Thanks guys ;-)

Help Japan!!

As we all know Japan has recently been destroyed by a massive tsunami and earthquake. Thousands were washed by the tsunami and many were crushed by the earthquake. There are still hundreds of people missing. Many Japanese have lost their homes, jobs and loved ones. Being from Japan it is sad that my home country is suffering and I want to be able to help in any way eventhough I'm miles and miles away. I'm spreading the word and pleading for you all to help through Japan's hard times. Please support and help Japan by making a donation, any donation is better than none and you can choose from any non-profit organization below:


Thank you and let's all pray for Japan.


Global Giving Organization - Japan earthquake and tsunami relief. You can donate any amount.


Lady Gaga 'Pray for Japan' bracelet - Lady Gaga made a 'Pray for Japan' also translated in Japanese wristband to support and donate the profits to Japan. Wear it proud and make it a fashion statement.


Japanese Red Cross Society - Donate directly to the Japanese in their currency (yen). From this link you can also donate to UNICEF and Save the Children.


Shelter Box - Giving people who lost their homes a safe place to stay and provide them shelter.


International Medical Corps - With the power plant meltdown and radiation leak the Japanese are in danger of cancer and other health issues. Help them from becoming ill and cancer-free.


World Vision - Bigger donation starting from $50 helping families and children in Japan.


I also want to point to everybody who lives in San Diego that if you go to any Japanese restaurants they will have a donation box where you can donate there as well.


My boutique in Clairemont NY Moda will also donate 5% of our sales this month to the Japanese Red Cross Society so come and shop guilt-free!!


Destructive Footage of Japan from the tsunami and earthquake



This video gave me the chills and made me cry. My heart goes to all the Japanese who have been affected by this horrible disastor!!



Love & Peace

What if one day...

there was no 'Leila Offner'. What then? Would the world change? Will everything be the same? Looking at my name I wondered... what if.
A lot of people don't like to think of the what if's but I think because their scared and afraid of the other options.
Well you know what? Life ain't always gonna be full of sweets and candies you're gonna come across a soar patch one day or another!
So thinking about what if there was no 'Leila Offner'... when I was younger my friends and I would ask another "If you died how many people do you think would show up to your funeral?" I use to say like "100!" I know it's a depressing conversation to have when you're a child or teen but it made you really think. I thought EVERYONE I knew would come but now that I'm older and wiser I realized people are into themselves too much. Unless you were really close to someone who has the time to go to their funeral? It's a brutal thing becoming an adult. You realize so much more things you didn't want to when you were little. The truth reveals and everything becomes more ugly. I hate the "real" world. I want to be like Michael Jackson and be in Neverland and be a kid forever. I think that's what he was trying to do I would have so sticked with MJ because the "real" world SUCKS!!
Sometimes I want 'Leila Offner' to disappear... just up in the air and then see what will happen.
Can I just evaporate in the air and ride with the wind?

Why sex is good for you.

Saw this article in "Real Beauty" and wanted to share it with everyone. Sex is not only good for you emotionally but for your skin too! I was going to be abstinent for 2 month along with being sober but this article might have changed my mind. lol
So here are the benefits:

Sex makes you glow
Having sex improves blood circulation, which helps to pump oxygen to your skin and make it brighter. It also helps to eliminate toxins and can actually make your lips a little fuller.


It controls acne
Having sex reduces your hormone levels and balances them out. So you get clearer-looking skin, along with healthier hair!


It wards off aging
As you have sex, you are boosting collagen production, which staves off age spots and sagging.


It prevents dry skin
By having sex and getting the blood and oxygen flowing, you can keep dry skin away regardless of your age.


It prevents wrinkles too
Having sex boosts collagen production so that means it helps to keep you wrinkle-free in the process! There's no facial mask that works as well as sex does for your skin.


Sex is the fountain of youth
So there was a study done on sex and youth a few years back to prove this point. In a span of 10 years, 3,500 men and women, both those who had sex regularly and those who didn't, were put on one side of a two-way mirror, where participants on the other side had to guess their age. The group that had an active sex life had their age underestimated by seven to 12 years, while some thought the group that only had sex infrequently actually looked older!


Sex makes your nails stronger
The same hormones that are released to make your skin glow will also keep your nails strong.


Sex keeps you hydrated
No, this doesn't mean you can replace your eight glasses of water with eight hours of sex, but having sex will keep your skin hydrated. lol Since it improves circulation, the blood will circulate around your body more efficiently, giving your skin the moisture it needs to stay healthy.


It cleanses your pores
Sex will do the trick, depending on how hot and heavy things are getting. By sweating during sex, you're actually giving your face a free facial. The sweat will clean from your pores the dirt, grime, and makeup residue you miss when you cleanse your face during the day.


And for girls who are single or going through a sex slump there is a cheat trick from NARS. It's called the NARS orgasm blush which gives you the after sex glow. It's actually one of the company's most popular products. 

A licensed clinical sexologist said:

"An orgasm is one of the healthiest things you can give yourself each day. From a sexologist's point of view it should be included in your routine along with brushing your teeth and washing your hair." 


So what are you guys waiting for!? Go hump like bunnies but remember no glove, no love! xoxo


Leila

Bipolar feelings

So I have finally came to the realization that I have bipolar feelings. I'm not bipolar but my emotions are. I tend to like, care, love somebody one day and the next day I'm so over it and don't wanna hang out w them anymore. It's very weird and I can't control it... I don't think therapy will help either. I'm sure it's because I'm confused and just haven't found someone that fulfills me. I'm a very confusing person towards love like my palm reader said. I need to step back from my wild life and concentrate on myself. Gotta retire from the craziness one point in life right?

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Bad dream

Woke up to a really bad dream this morning and in such a poopy mood today. It was everything bad in my life... career, love, friends and people around me. So I only remember parts and bits of it but first off I spilled something green (maybe ice cream) all over my manager at Bloomies = my anger towards them for laying me off maybe? Then my really good friend was mad at me AGAIN and his family wanted to even cut me off from their lives = I'm playing w fire and need to stop. Next I was me swimming and saw dead people floating. Even when I was walking there were dead people but I didn't care like it didn't really even bother me = care for the people around me? OR don't let people influence my life cuz their dead to me anyways.
Ugh it's hard to read dreams but it's my subconscious mind that's signaling something. I need a get away vacation. Get me outta here!!!

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Liars are just cowards

Was just thinking about my past relationships and so many of them lied to me and I was thinking why!? I hate lying because once you lie you gotta lie again to cover up that lie and it goes on forever and honestly it's tiring. Why the f do I have to think so hard when I can just simply say the truth. Well and the other part is because I'm such a bad liar you can straight up tell when I'm lying it's like I have a big fat "liar" sticker on my forehead. Lol But really I wondered y ppl lie so much and just figured it out. Ppl lie because their cowards. Their scared they'll get judged, looses someone, get rejected, punished, screwed or anything that'll make them look bad. Doesn't it feel so guilty to lie thou? Yea you get confronted by cheating on someone and you lie and get away but that guilt just sticks by you and haunts you forever. Or at least that's how I feel so it doesn't take me very long to come clean. That was a bad example because it's not like it happened to me but with other occassions. So now I think I'm glad I left my ex bcuz he was too much of a pussy to tell me the truth anyways! How can I be w someone so weak and can't even live up to what he says? Fuckin talk is cheap anyways so I dun really fully listen to ppl, just observe their actions. For all those liars out there fuckin grow some balls and man up!

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Loveless...

So after 4 years of being single (damn that's such a long time) I finally know why it's been so long. I was talking to my friend the other day who knew my ex, my one and only serious relationship guy, who also hurt me bad like baaaaaaad. Anyways I realized that I've been traumatized by my last relationship. Yea, of course I met wonderful people after that but never gotten to commit to another relationship. I always kept a distance and never fully committed to one because I was so scared to fall in love again. People tend to think of me as a type of girl who likes to party, go wild and just do what I want and don't really care. But in reality when I fall for someone or be in a relationship I give my all. I try to become the best gf possible and put so much into the relationship that when it ends it's like the world falls apart. Breaking up with someone you love so much is I'd say the worst feeling possible. I'm such a strong, independent person and have such a tough skin but if I really care for someone I can't just say fuck it and move on. It's not easy to cut somebody off your life when they've been a big part of your life... I should give chances but I realized my biggest fear isn't rejection (cuz that's what I always been saying) it's being in love. I told my parents the last time they were here that I don't think I could get married because A. I'm scared to get hurt B. I feel like I'll fuck it up cuz I could be such a Bitch sometimes C. I can't possibly imagine being with someone for the rest of the life (Not saying I can't be loyal but I can't even be with my best friend for a whole month how the hell am I gonna be with a guy for like the next 50yrs!?)
I just need someone to sweep me off my feet I guess... and take more chances than just closing all the doors.

GUCCI's 'handmade' high heel boot

What the hell!? I mean I love GUCCI and all but $3750 for boots!?! Are u insane!? I will buy a really nice handbag that will last me a lifetime but for shoes!? No way!

Yes, I'm a shoe-holic but I will not spend more than $300 on shoes ok even $200 is cutting it because shoes are so fragile and they get messed up so quickly & easily!

Who buys these stuff? Well obviously the rich and famous but really? There's no sign of GUCCI on this pair of boots! So unless you absolutely LOVE it I dun see anybody buying it...


.... just saying.

My saweeeeet new air force ones!!

Went to Flashbacks today w my family today. If you all dunno what Flashbacks is it's a second hand clothing store. They sell a lot of costume stuff also like wigs, legging tights, tutus... etc
So much fun if you have time to kill you get to find great stuff! Check it out it's on 5th avenue in between University and Robinson Ave.
So today I found the saweeeeeetest Nike's here. Their like pearl white with a silver Nike swish on the side but the soles are rainbow color. It's sooooo cute! Omg I rarely wear sneakers, I'm a total heels kinda girl but I think I might wear these everyday now <3

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